In my journey of self-discovery and the new perspective that I am on, I have been learning how to see the good in any situation I may face.
I have found it to be a profound discovery as to how I can turn any and all negative into positive, and it is something that I would love to share with you today.
I will freely admit that this has been something that I have struggled to achieve, and It has taken me years to get to this point of mastery; to be completely honest, it is still something I struggle with from time to time.
The Struggle
The struggle is mental, primarily more so than emotional, but as everything is a process, the first thing you have to do Is recognize the emotions you have linked to the event you are going through.
Once you have identified the emotion, you have to be willing to let go of them and look for the positive in that situation which is not always easy to find.
I will admit, for a very long time, I found it hard to let go of the emotions linked to my events. It seemed nearly impossible to see past what I felt was wrong about the situation, and I just wanted justice or for things to be made right.
As I previously stated, it took me years to see that my emotions kept me living in each of my most traumatic events and that to be set free from them, I would have to be willing to let go of them and be open to a new perspective.
The New Perspective
Here is where things get really impressive. I discovered that every single thing we as individuals go through has a reason and rhyme to it. It literally has a purpose, or it would not be.
Once I came to this discovery, I began to look for the meaning and reason for each event that had so profoundly turned my world upside down.
Do you know what I found? I found that each of those events taught me something new about people, about life, and best of all, it taught me all about me. Each of them taught me who I am, what I can do, who I can be, and that there is no limit to what I can create.
Suddenly, things that had crippled me and left me with overwhelming anger and sadness looked entirely different. The weight I carried with me everywhere I went began to lift as if sunshine broke open through all those dark clouds in my head.
I actually started to feel a happier and real purpose in my life, I began to start dreaming and finding a new direction for my life, and I started to want to make myself and life better. It all started with me seeing that not unlinking my emotions from the situation or event was the real problem and that I needed to start seeing things from a different perspective.
This is something I share with you today because it something because it feels so freaking good not to be carrying all that anger and sadness. I just want all those struggling to see the positive in their situation to know that it really is there, so don’t give up looking because you will find it at some point.
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Until next time, namaste
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